Saturday, July 9, 2011


Not to long ago a friend of a friend of a friend asked me how to become a writer. Not a published writer (although that was the final goal), but a writer.

Simple question- right? How do you become a writer? Well, you just start writing! My first response wasn't really all that helpful. Akin to telling someone to learn how to ride a bike by just riding ;).

However my reaction was valid- like bike riding, once you’ve been writing for a while (and lets face it, for many of us this has been a VERY long term disorder) it’s automatic. We can’t think of that vague, distant time when we didn’t write.

For example- right this moment, without stopping to ponder- describe how to tie a shoelace. Unless you’ve got a small child you are currently teaching how to do that, chances are you’re going to have a hard time explaining it quickly. It’s something we do all the time and it’s become automatic. But we don't think about the process.

So, how does one become a writer?

I thought it might be interesting to toss this question out to the lurking masses on this blog. If you were talking to someone who had never written, they had the longing, but hadn’t put pen to paper yet, what advice would you give them? To that lost, long ago self who first decided they needed to start creating their own worlds to play in? When I first started writing there was no internet, writers didn’t have the same resources they do now. But they still need help ;).

My comments to that friend of a friend of a friend (once I got the idea settled anyway ;)) would be:

1)Write. Seems simple really, but there are still folks out there who think that they can come up with ideas and work with someone else who will write them down. I once had a boyfriend who seriously thought they hardest part of writing was coming up with the idea, “anyone can just write”. Needless to say he’d never actually written anything- and we broke up a LONG time ago. Lots of folks will give you writing “rules”- the only one that really matters is that you have to write.

2)Read. Ah- the flip side. Read in your genre. Read out of your genre. Read about writing, with the caveat that you take “rules” with a grain of salt. You’re going to get conflicting information. You can’t let it make you quit or give you self doubts. Just bring in as much legit writing info that you can- eventually you’ll start to realize what feels true for you. NEVER stop reading or learning- EVER.

3)Be realistic. You aren’t going to get rich. Seriously. Your odds are akin to winning a lottery big enough to quit work. DO NOT look at the exceptions and think they are the norm. You write because you love it, or just don’t even start.

4)Build your craft. Go to conferences, join groups, pick up writing mags, books, webinars, whatever- but constantly improve your craft!

5)Don’t give up. This is a brutal field equal to acting in terms of rejection. You are going to get the emotional crap beaten out of you- that is a promise. BUT you can survive. Don’t quit your day job, but don’t give up either. A screenwriter friend once told me “You can’t fail, you can only quit.” In other words, as long as you keep up the fight- you’re never a failure.

So now it's out to you fine folks- what would you tell a new writer?


  1. One piece of advice that I try to keep in mind as I write is "Write what you love to read."

  2. I'd be tempted to tell 'em to throw 'shit' (words) on the barn door (computer) and see what sticks and have the tenanciousness of a pit bull. This isn't an easy business to succeed in, but if it's something you can't help doing, ignore all the naysayers and go for it.

  3. Read everything you can find on the craft of writing. From POV to Plot, Structure Scent and Editing. Then, tell them to write. And write, and do it everyday. No matter what. We've all be there done that and the pleasure is in the doing.

  4. Great blog Marie!!! :)

    And I agree about your advice... There isn't a magic recipe to suddenly make youa great writer. You just have to write. Keep practicing your craft... :)


  5. Great advice Marie, all of it valuable and applicable. This is a tough business and it really is a matter of sitting down and starting. You have to have something down on paper that you can evaluate. It's also important to make connections through writer's groups and mentor programs, so that you can learn and grow. You're right that there is a wealth of information at our fingertips today that wasn't available in years previous. Take advantage of it and keep on writing!

  6. Great advice. There are so many people out there that have an interesting story in their heads but have no idea how to tell it. When I first started, I bought the "Romance Writing for Dummies" book, and still felt clueless. It wasn't until I got into a critique group that I started figuring out what I was doing. Mentoring is key to success in any profession.

  7. Well put, Marie. I enjoyed your post. Taking the initial step to play with an idea and words is key.